I have to admit that I never thought that I’d write a blog post on how to relate to others. For most of my life I realized that I wasn’t particularly empathetic but didn’t prioritize changing that.
Then I met a very empathetic friend (she wrote The Charisma Myth) and she just point blank told me that I should work on being empathetic. So I did.
I’m sure I still have plenty of work to do, but even though I’m not an expert, I have a lot of ideas to share on how to relate to people, maybe because it’s something I had to consciously work on.
Maybe the biggest change I made is in how I judge other people. I can be pretty judgmental by nature, but that’s changed a lot for a few reasons. I now have a process I go through to try to be more positive