Knowing When You're Boring and Avoiding It

You know that feeling when you’re sitting across from someone and they’re prattling on about something in which you have no interest? They aren’t actually trying to bore you, they just don’t know any better. Which begs the question—are you ever that person?

In reality I’m sure we all bore someone sometimes, but we can work on reducing or eliminating that to make sure that it happens as infrequently as possible.

First, think about what benefit the information you’re about to share has to the listener. Will they be entertained? Will they learn something useful? Are they a good friend who will want to share your joy or help you with your problem? If there’s no benefit, don’t share the information. Save it for someone else.

A prime example for me is politics. During the election everyone wanted to talk about politics, which was never an enjoyable experience for me.

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