I often get asked how I make friends with so many great people. This is sort of a funny question because I think most people actually don’t know just how great my friend group is, since they only know a few people who are well known. So in a way, it’s an ever better question than they realize. On the other hand, maybe I should be offended that they think those people wouldn’t want to be friends with me naturally!
Joking aside, I believe very strongly that having a good friend circle is one of the most important things you can do, and that it’s very smart to proactively think about how to be the best friend possible and build the best friend group possible.
If you’re interested in going deep on this topic, you should read my book Superhuman Social Skills, which covers it extensively.
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