It’s easy to analyze when things go poorly, but that it doesn’t come as naturally when things are going well. When things are good it’s very easy to just brush it away by assuming that the success was somehow due to you. I know I’ve thought that many times, especially when I was younger.
As I’ve thought about some recent successes, I’ve thought about the value of putting myself out there, making myself vulnerable to failure, with the aim of increasing my exposure to good things happening.
There are a lot of things that you can do to increase the chance of good things happening to you.
If you’re dating, your going to have the best chance at meeting someone good if you’re on every dating site, always messaging people, and strike up conversations in real life with strangers you find attractive. You’re going to face a lot of rejection