I get asked a lot to write about relationships, probably because I used to be involved in pickup and it seems strange to some that I’m now married (though from my perspective getting married is an obvious outcome of getting good at pickup/dating).
I’m always a bit hesitant to write about it, because relationships are so complex and individual. While there’s a lot of blanket advice that be given on how to walk up to someone and start a conversation, there’s a lot less that’s universally applicable in a relationship. But I’ll give it a shot anyway.
And all of this comes with a major caveat that I’m going to be generalizing for the sake of making this applicable to the widest number of people, which is to say for a traditional male and female relationship with stereotypical gender roles. Some of it may apply to people in other