As I help more people work through their sticking points through coaching, I’ve noticed that a surprisingly large factor in many peoples’ lives is how others perceive them. This is largely a foreign experience to me, and I think that it’s been a great advantage to me to not really care what other people think.
I would like to believe that it’s some inner well of strength that allows me to overwhelmingly disregard what strangers think of me, but if I’m honest about it, I believe that it originates from not being very popular as a kid.
At some point I realized that I was just not going to be a traditionally “cool” person. I’m sure it stung a little bit to realize that, but it was also freeing in a way. If I wasn’t going to win that game anyway, why try to play it?
At the same time,